Yes you read right…. Get Ready With Me Blog Style. I know you won’t be able to see me, but that’s the reason why it’s a blog style in written form. I have selected some handbags that if you choose the one that suits you the most, that will be how this will begin.
Get Ready With Me Blog Style / What Does How You Wear Your Handbag Say About You?
You’re all dressed up and ready to go, you have selected a handbag that matches your outfit and fits the event or occasion, or perhaps not…
Take a look at the signals that you send out, when your body language speaks volumes, which makes it easy for you to be analysed based of how you read you hold your handbag (Handbags aka Purses in the US)
The Nook – Celebrity Pose
A nook pose is sporting a dazzling designer handbag (Purse) in a way to confidently display wealth and status, it works for many, but looks forced by others who imitate the look, but there’s another less obvious way to achieve the nook pose, you’ll know it when you see it.
The Tuck – Clutch And Go
I know that this title sounds like a car mechanic firm, but it would with a handbag named ‘clutch’ but you do clutch these bags close to you, and they work well with certain style choices, an easy going person, feminine, self confident, and happy with their appearance will select it fast and keep things moving.
A Shoulder Bag – Very Practical
Wearing a shoulder bag is very practical, because your hands are free, and as you have placed it on your shoulder and it’s away from her body, it shows an open accepting of who she is and what she stands for, successful and with prestige and status is what’s displayed here.
A Handbag Worn Across The Body And Placed In Front Of You
This look takes a certain outfit to make it work, but appearance isn’t the key thing here, because this handbag is easily accessible and safely guarded in front, so it’s practical and very convenient, this shows an organised, precise and logical thinker who needs to feel protected.
A Handbag Worn Across The Body But Placed At The Back Of You
You have to be a very trustful person to keep a handbag of value behind you, self assured and direct with a fitness minded person with a great figure also.
A Handbag Worn Close To Your Body
This handbag might as well be glued on or strapped to her, it’s so tightly grasped to her body this person protects her possessions, but the message shown here is a nervous, quiet and insecure person, who battles fear and needs guidance.
A Handbag Worn Over Your Shoulder
With the placement of the handbag hanging loosely at the side, sends out the message of being straightforward, down to earth, spontaneous, sensible and self assured, but also very practical.
The grab – A Fixture
Holding the handbag in this way shows a confident and image conscious person, but it’s held as a shield to conceal what exactly? The heavy grasp like she’s clinging on to her handbag for dear life, are insecure and nervous signals.
A Shoulder Bag You Are Heavily Gripping
By holding the handbag this way it shows a very shy and anxious person who stays away from drama and attention, the heavy grip to it shows a person with low self esteem and insecurity issues.
A Handbag That You Are Loosely Holding
When holding the handbag in this way it shows elegance, sophistication and stylish. This person is upbeat, positive and assertive and it accentuates her outfit that speaks volumes on its own. An ambitious person who is carefree and excited for the journey ahead would carry their bag like an accessory in this way. On a side note, I like those shoes! I have a similar pair but with more detailing at the top of it.
The Dangle – You Are Grasping The Handle
”Don’t look at me I didn’t wanna carry this thing” Is what it seems by reading between the lines here. Is she walking her dog or lugging a bag of meat around? No it’s the dangle, and the person is slightly insecure and uncertain about a few things in her life, these signals are portrayed here.
A TOTE Handbag – Bare Essentials
I didn’t want to add a typical TOTE style bag made of cotton, or the latest designer ones. A lecturer, teacher carries these bags the most, it’s for the practical aspects of it all. The person who carries a TOTE bag won’t care what others think about it being basic, cheap and cheerful, or that it’s a granny’s first pick, because it’s your choice and being carefree and approachable you are a happy person.
A Handbag Worn Across The Body And Placed At The Side
A busy person who has places to go, and things to do in quick succession, wears a handbag across the body and to one side, safety is important but it’s also practical and functional, a sensible, responsible and carefree person that gets a lot of attention for being positive.
Briefcase – All Round Business
A smart, sophisticated and intelligent person carries stylish briefcases, it shows independence, intelligence, important and self assured, image and status goes without saying, they can be abrupt and determined but also financially stable and comfortable.
A Back Pack – Travellers
A person wearing a backpack is usually a traveller who is travelling abroad or several miles away, it’s practical for an occasional need to carry more than a handbag, but a person who owns a backpack is a nature loving person who eats healthily, trustworthy and sentimental person, the backpack will be filled to the brim with cherished keepsakes and comforts, this person seeks inner calm, solace and to feel accepted, the backpack is an attachment like a cuddly teddy bear.
A Small Rucksack Worn With One Shoulder On
This is never usually worn for just one day, when a person buys a rucksack it’s for an everyday longevity kind of purchase, it’s sometimes known as a bucket bag, maybe because you can shove many things in it with no sections to keep tidy, being a healthy and carefree person, that is independent and practical.
Not Carrying A Handbag At All
You are privileged and self assured, if other people aren’t carrying your goods for you, then you have to everything worked out accurately and logically, a great sense of freedom, many people carry handbags every now and again also, very body and confident the clothes looks good and it speaks volumes.
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